Um, I’m not sure if you noticed, but the first day of November begins next week. When did that happen? It seems like just last week I was getting ready for the first day of school, and now it’s days before Halloween with Thanksgiving sneaking up very soon.
Even though the leaves have been changing colors and I’ve been indulging in everything pumpkins spiced (except coffee creamer because that tastes how I would imagine pumpkin spice scented soap from Bath and Body Works would taste like), I feel like I have finally settled into a routine. Part of the reason may be because Harrington has been traveling a lot or maybe time just seems to be moving that fast. Who knows?
What I do know is that after this *supposed* last day of mild weather, any remnants of summer will be gone, and with it, so are the days of sleeping in until 8am (which is the equivalent of sleeping in until noon since before that my kids were waking up at 6:00am) and not having to urgently rush to some place. There will be no more ice cream on the swing set as the sun sets. Week-long family
will be on hiatus, too.
But the pressure of managing two kids all. damn. day. is gone, too. I won’t be stressing about my lack of motivation to do something other than turn on the TV because the weather is so hot. (I try not to complain about the weather and find the good in each season as I wrote here at the Detroit News MichMoms blog, but I have learned that heat and humidity sucks my will do anything faster than any cold snap).
However, as the very wise man Jerry Seinfeld once said, “You can’t have the this without the that.” The tradeoff is getting up early to work out and making lunches. It’s also kind of sad that I don’t see my babies all day, and I find myself reminiscing about the days of being on lockdown due to the nursing/nap schedule.
I need to be honest, and I know this might not be in line with the popular consensus, but I’m OK with getting up early and having to be at the bus stop at a certain time; it keeps me motivated. What can I say, I thrive on a deadline.
I may not see Marie all day, but I try to make the time we spend together count, whether it’s when we do homework or driving to swim. Because going to school all day and exploring outside interests is the natural order of things, I really stress quality over quantity. Also, I am able to have some valuable one-on-one time with Thomas, which he really needs right now.
I am sure that when June rolls around I will be more than ready to ditch the schedule for new adventures. I can also promise with great certainty that I will be excited for September when balance is then restored.
What do you think about your school routine? Love it? Hate it?